December 29, 2012

2012 Reads

2012 Reads

“I declare after all there is no enjoyment like reading! How much sooner one tires of any thing than of a book! -- When I have a house of my own, I shall be miserable if I have not an excellent library.” 
-Jane Austen


Team of Rivals by Doris Kearns Goodwin = A
This book was a suggestion from one of my professors. And honestly, it was one of the best books I have ever read! The plot is unique in that it is a biography of Lincoln told through his political genius. D.K.W. does a phenomenal job portraying the era, the who's who, the nature and politics of Lincoln (both the good and the bad), all with a realistic perspective of the time. Read it.

The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh = B
This was an impulse buy when I was desperate for a good read for a long plane ride. Interesting little story about a girl growing up a ward of California state but finding her ability to relate to others through the long forgotten language of flowers. Quick read. Good read. Now I'm slightly obsessed with the different meanings of flowers.

The Mind Tree by Tito Rajarshi Mukhopadhyay = A
Recommend to by one of my new sisters in law who happens to share an interest in the mental health field, Autism in particular. The author, Tito, is a young man who has a unique ability to write, in spite of his debilitating autism. He gives a fascinating perspective of what people suffering from mental health challenges might be experiencing in the world we perceive to be normal. Very thought provoking.  


A Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens = A+
I crown this the BEST READ OF THE YEAR. I'm not sure how I hadn't read it before now but I recommend it and rerecommend it. Dickens writing, of course, is some of the most beautifully descriptive, profoundly symbolic writing I have ever read. This book changed my life. I pondered on it for weeks after I finished it. If you haven't read it go to the library and get it. Today.

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith = A+
Loved it! This was probably my second favorite read this year. A classic piece of literature that, again, I'm not sure how I hadn't read it yet. Beautiful piece of a girl growing up in 1920 Brooklyn. From my research, B.S. really hadn't intended on writing a novel that would be a timeless description of human experience. But she did. So while you are at the library, grab this one too. You won't regret it.

Edenbrooke by Julianne Donaldson = C
The grade might be a little unfair, simply because the next few books I read just couldn't possibly live up to the standard of Dickens and Smith. So... if you can't sleep one night and need something to entertain yourself... this quick read is perfect. Spoken from experience. Cute story, weak writing. I still liked it. And that is probably because I am a Pride and Prejudice lover at heart. So naturally, I could never turn down a regency romance novel.


Shades of Milk and Honey by Mary Robinette Kowel = C
Again, probably an unfair judgement simply because by this point I was still pondering the profound story of A Tale of Two Cities. It is an interesting new take from the regency era. Cute story. Quick read. Poor writing. Of course, I did like it enough to read the sequel.

Glamour in Glass by Mary Robinette Kowel = C
The sequel.

The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien = A+
Classic. The last time I read this was in elementary school so my Hunky Husband and I decided it was time to read it together in preparation for the movie. It reads totally different than Lord of the Rings. It is very much a children's story that is full of adventure and fantasy. I love it. I'll always love it. I'm already daydreaming of reading this aloud to my children one day.


Jacob T. Marley by R. William Bennett = A
This was a fortunate accidental read. If you love Christmas Carol then this is a delightful companion book. In my humble opinion, they should always be read together. Although C.B.'s writing can't compare with Dickens, his story certainly can. I won't give away the plot. Just read it next Christmas. You won't regret it. 

Let it Go by Chris Williams = A-
Another book that will change your life. His story is incredibly inspiring. His thoughts on life and his experiences are very thought provoking. The - is because I honestly was a little distracted by his jostled writing. But know, reading his book will make you take inventory of your own life and how well you are living it. Guaranteed, you will be inspired to be a better person. 

The Rent Collector by Cameron Wright = A
A unique perspective of literature about literature. The setting takes place in a Cambodian dump. I know, strange huh. But it really is quite a fantastic story of the human journey... of hope, of optimism, of reality, of second chances, of human relationships and the power of literature. I personally loved the writing style. The beginning was rather slow, but the end makes it worth it. 


The Wind and the Waves by Dean Hughes = B+
Set in 1840s England, the story follows a young man who faces the hardships of a class system designed to destroy him and the hope that comes with the Gospel of Jesus Christ. has been a long time since I have read some good LDS fiction. I picked it up because I had fallen in love with Dean Hughes' The Children of the Promise series. I liked the story. I don't think it was as well written as his other stories but it was a good read. I liked it enough that I plan on reading the rest of the series as they are released.

December 18, 2012

Thoughts of my Heart...

Have you ever had an experience where your spirit connects with another?

I've felt it before. It can happen at times when there is a moment of deep understanding between two people, sincere sympathy, or empathy. Maybe you've known the person a long time. Maybe you've recently met. The end result, for me anyway, always leaves a profound love for the other with whom I shared the experience.

I had one of these tender experiences recently. Our exchange was less than a minute. But his spirit left an impression on mine that I will not soon forget.

His eyes were soft and sincere, a stark contrast to his haggard appearance. The lines in his forehead showed a lifetime of hard work and concern, especially where his brows must often have been furrowed in worry. His clothes were old. His stance was tired. He held a sign in the snow asking for help.

Normally, I try to smile and wave. Be friendly. Lift a spirit. I've always been taught and scolded to give to the shelters not to the people. We passed him the first time when the snow was just starting. When we passed him the second time the snow had fallen several hours. He hadn't moved and covered in white.

We turned around. We had to.

My sister ran over to him with some Christmas peppermints and a generous gift from my mother. Something deeper in me needed to know that he was okay. So we pulled around. I asked him if he was alright. He nodded. He had seen my mother's gift and there were tears in his eyes. There were tears in mine.  I told him to find a hot dinner and a warm place to stay. He thanked us again and again. His eyes were so soft and sincere. He turned and limped to his cart, his home. I cried. His tender limp made me think of my own grandfather.

It was such a short exchange... but I will always remember his soft and sincere eyes.

December 9, 2012

Goal #25

Goal #25: Teach

I love to teach.

I'm not exactly sure why. It might be because I have a lot to say and teaching gives me the opportunity to be heard. he he. It might be because I am a Type A Personality and like to be in charge (just ask my siblings). It might be because I like to learn and we often do when we teach.

Anyway... I came across this photo a couple weeks ago...
which reminded me of my goal.


In 2006, during my studies at BYU Idaho, I was offered a job teaching a Leadership Practicum Course. I jumped at the opportunity. Not only did I get to teach, but I got to teach one of my favorite topics! Yes, Please! During the semester I was assigned 22 students and the challenge to teach basic leadership skills. It was so fun! And I think I also figured out why I like teaching. 

I love people.

I love getting to know people: their likes, dislikes, interests, hobbies, what inspires them, what discourages them, their hopes, their challenges, etc. 

I love teaching because I get to know people.

Even better is that 6 years later I am still friends with many of them. I have been influenced by them countless times. And now, I get to observe what they have done and will do with their lives (since they are all little leaders now... haha).

I should try and say something profound... but the point of this is simply to say that I enjoy teaching and hope for many opportunities down the road.

The end.

December 2, 2012

Let It Go

I just read the most inspirational story. Actually, I've read a couple amazing books lately. I'll tell you about them sometime. Anyway, this one in particular...


...was phenomenal.

Here is a shorter version of his story:



November 25, 2012




Every single day do something that makes your heart sing.

- Marcia Wieder

November 6, 2012

A rekindled love...



The hubby and I just finished reading this last night.
The last time I read this was in elementary school.
I forgot what a fun read it is.
I'm excited to read it again, one day, with my kids.

Until then, I'll settle for being excited for this!


November 2, 2012

Indexing

Speaking of indexing...

I was going along on my jolly way as I indexed Birth Records today and what do you know... I got to index records from Wilmington, Sabina, and Clarksville Ohio!

While small and seemingly insignificant towns... they happen to be my last area on my mission!

Thats all.

October 15, 2012

Goal #12

Goal #12: Do My Genealogy

I love family history. There is something truly satisfying to know where you come from... who you are. Every once in awhile I get this genealogy itch knowing I need to do more.

However, I have found a similar activity that is almost as fulfilling.


I LOVE Indexing.

I started years ago and try to do some as often as I can.

I think this is an outlet for my inner-history-nerd. I am fascinated with names and dates and stories. I love indexing census' and wondering what each family was like and what their experiences were. Birth, Marriage, Death certificates. They all have stories. Most have been forgotten.


Speaking of forgotten stories...I just learned my Great Great Grandfather was a drunk and sold off all of his children. Yeah... not sure how I feel about that one yet. 

So... while I'm not completely fulfilling my goal yet... 
I am enjoying imagining other forgotten stories of the past. 

October 2, 2012

Goal #19

Goal #19: Learn to Sew

Ok.

I'm going to do it. 

I have my sewing machine out.

My mother stocked me up on thread and fabric.

Grandma treated me to a beginner quilting book.

I'm in desperate need of a hobby.

I'm going to do it.

I'm committing.

That's all.

September 22, 2012

September 16, 2012

Goal #55

 Goal #55: Learn to fix my car and be "car literate"

I guess now would be a good time to start. ha ha.
Thank goodness my husband is more "car literate" than me!


Bring on a new starter. 

September 10, 2012

Goal #69: Redemption

In case you forgot... 
Goal #69: Learn to cook


SUCCESS!
Wife tested... Husband Approved.

PS...The sole purpose of this post is to redeem myself.

PPS... Best {and easiest} Recipe EVER

Light Chicken Parmesan
4 chicken breasts, thawed and pounded
Mix: 
1/2 cup Parmesan Cheese
1/4 cup Sour Cream
1 tsp Basil
1 tsp Sun-dried tomatoes (my addition)

Broil Chicken 5-7 minutes on each side. When completely broiled add parmesan-sour cream mixutre on top. Broil for another 1-2 minutes. Serve hot and enjoy!


September 9, 2012

Goal #69: Bad Start

Goal #69: Learn to cook

I really didn't think I was this bad.


Sunday Dinner #1: FAIL

August 21, 2012

Photo Class with Brittany


This week I taught Brittany the 6 Rules of Composition for Photography. She did pretty well, if I do say so myself.


Brittany's:
 Simplicity

 Lines


Rule of Thirds

Color
*How fabulous would it be to have a bright blue water meter.

Texture

 Framing


We aren't sure what this is... 
but we liked it.


Carlee's:
Simplicity

Color

Lines 

 Texture

Rule of Thirds

Framing


Let's see. I think this qualifies as...
 Goal #73: Do Something Special with my Siblings
and
67. Help children develop their talents
and
Goal #81: Create a Photography Portfolio
and
Just plain fun.


August 19, 2012

Study: To Live

Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living the result of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinion drowned your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, they somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.         [Steve Jobs]

This thought hits a chord in my heart. Here is my problem...

I have fear. A lot of it.

I'm afraid of everything. What people think. What if the house burns down. What am I going to do with my life (now... "our" life). I can't go snorkeling... I'll get eaten by a shark. I can't go float down the river... I'll drown. (this tends to happens with water)

Did you know that fear is a learned behavior. It's true. (Here comes my psychology self...) We are conditioned to fear things. Little Albert anyone? 

But I've been asking myself lately...
Is fear worth it?

I decided its not.

It's not productive. It isn't efficient. It doesn't accomplish anything but ulcers. It wastes time, energy, and emotional construct.

Life IS for living. 
Life IS NOT for worrying about everything.

I've discovered an even greater appreciation for optimism. Sometimes it can be difficult to muster, but it conquers fear in a split second. I am in love with the observation made in "We Bought a Zoo"...
The word "COURAGE" is my life mantra. It has been for years. And honestly, I love it. I love being reminded that we have one life to live. Sometimes I need the reminder to do those crazy, out of the ordinary, spontaneous, memory-making experiences. Our every-day lives need those.

So here is my little blog post to myself as a reminder. I can do hard things. I can have courage. I will cultivate optimism... and I will enjoy what life has to offer. 

August 16, 2012

Goal #1: Complete

I told him that I would engrave...
"Now you are stuck forever" 
...on his ring. 

He just laughed.


I am a lucky girl.

July 16, 2012

Goal #17

Goal #17: Learn to Arrange Flowers

Love this one! That could easily be because I LOVE flowers.

My dear friend, Shalyn, asked Natalie and I to work with Tessa on her wedding flowers. Neither of us knew anything about flower arranging but Tessa was a great teacher. Shalyn's flowers were simple but BEAUTIFUL! And I learned how to make a bomb boutonniere!

Me, Natalie, and Tessa

Don't mind the disaster of a photo of me. It had been a long day. But the flowers were beautiful!

July 15, 2012

Love is in the air...

I was looking through my goals today and realized Nathanael has been helping along with some of them...and I didn't even realize it. ha ha.

Goal #94: Try fish/seafood
Although I totally don't appreciate his help in this department. ugh. He did make me try a bite of his salmon at Sundance. It was disgusting. But at least I tried... again. Now I'm good for another 5 years or so. Regardless, Nathanael always offers a bite when he orders it.

Goal #95: Find a way to support the troops
I might as well start with one...
I'm trying to do that by not complaining when he does his job.... particularly when it means leaving the week before we get married. On the up side... I've always found a guy in uniform attractive. lucky me. :)

Goal #96: Get kissed in the rain. 
Enough said. :)

I love this man. 16 days left!

June 25, 2012

Goal #49

Goal #49: Stay in touch with lifetime friends

I think this has been one of the most important goals of my life. At least one that has brought so much joy and satisfaction.

I'm begining to realize that a person's influence is not determined by how long or short he/she has been in my life. I have so many dear friends that I did not get to be around for long but that have influenced my life in powerful ways. And I love every opportunity to talk to or see them again!

Like these wonderful girls!

Rachel, Steph, Kyndra, Natalie and Me

 I know that the Lord provides opportunities for us to learn from some of his greatest children along the way. I have been so blessed to be in the association of these girls. And although we might not get to see each other often or regularly, they will always be considered some of my lifetime friends.

A bubble duel

This post may sound serious... but we never are. :)

May 18, 2012

Goal #1

Goal #1: Get married in the temple...
                                                          .... that is the plan!

Who?
My best friend

What?
Marriage!

When?


Where?
Timpanogos Temple 

Why?
How do you say no to this? :D